tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6198929088649595361.post6759113101950144002..comments2023-10-30T07:03:27.777-07:00Comments on הָאָדָם בְּעוֹלָמוֹ: To be Gottenהצעיר שלמה בן רפאל לבית שריקי ס"טhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04835340110056405173noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6198929088649595361.post-66249400992917939372009-08-31T17:31:16.863-07:002009-08-31T17:31:16.863-07:00"We can only find out though if they show us ..."We can only find out though if they show us that part of their personality"- Which in turn takes a good listener.. ...someone fascinated by people..<br /><br />I mean, people are only as fascinating as we make them out to be...beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.. ..it's an acquired trait I guess, to be excited about people.. *sigh*, I'm going on again...maybe I'll make a post about this..הצעיר שלמה בן רפאל לבית שריקי ס"טhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04835340110056405173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6198929088649595361.post-29376221871464627972009-08-30T19:33:04.412-07:002009-08-30T19:33:04.412-07:00It is very difficult since we're all so diff. ...It is very difficult since we're all so diff. <br />some are obvious, but some are not so, and it takes more observing because what we think is them, might be only part of them, but there's another part too. <br />But the more we find out, the more we see them as they see themselves. We can only find out though if they show us that part of their personality.smbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6198929088649595361.post-63874629843005310922009-08-30T10:48:05.961-07:002009-08-30T10:48:05.961-07:00I mean, what I was getting at was a bit more than ...I mean, what I was getting at was a bit more than "listening" really (which was why it was in quotes). I meant seeing a person more-or-less in the same way they see themselves. Which is quite difficult actually. <br /><br />..come to think of it, I probably haven't understood many people in that way myself. ..I mean, ...many people are kind of transparent, and there's nothing to "get" really. From my experience only a Small, minority of people are that "deep". ..but these ideas are so unempirical it's hard for me to speak of them with any honesty. It's all part of the "individual human experience" I guess. <br /><br />..whoah, I'm really going on over here..הצעיר שלמה בן רפאל לבית שריקי ס"טhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04835340110056405173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6198929088649595361.post-40495347542867775812009-08-30T10:34:09.438-07:002009-08-30T10:34:09.438-07:00I guess, like you say, maybe it's that women a...I guess, like you say, maybe it's that women are more verbal and so the men do more listening.<br /><br />However, I agree that women should also listen when men speak. I try to be a good listener with peoplesmbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.com